I fail to see why anyone here should contribute to this £5,000 money grab.
The death of a child - even a young adult - is a tragedy. Was she employed? Did she have life insurance? Did she have any savings? Is her family insolvent, living under a bridge somewhere?
HOW does this become a community obligation?
NO reasons have been given for why donations are required, just "we would like you to give us £5,000, please."
I await the flaming... unleash hell!